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Your Life, Your Rules!

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Life is full of uncertainties and nothing is constant but change. Day to-day we live as if like we follow rules, rules that we believe since we were young and already been carved  into our minds, it  dictate on how we live this life, different rules for all people. and even our rules change, changed by time, people we met and experiences. Most of the time we easily say that on every experience we had, we never regret anything that happened to show people how responsible, how strong and how rational we are. But deep inside us, we ask ourselves "what if?". This question reveals our weakness, insecurities and brings self-doubt and when see somebody who is stronger than us, we let them take over our lives. Generally, most of us are self-centered and act based on how we protect ourselves. Sometimes we are over protective to the point of hurting people, but often times we fail protecting ourselves that is why we got broken, we got hurt and we suffer. But In the en...

Ease up, Enjoy Life!

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Often times we wake up in the morning feeling good, but as we get up from the bed and begin our day, we tend to start complaining about simple things. Like how vague the dream was, it is too early to get up, yesterday was a fail, so much to do with so little time and a lot more. We often forget to say a little thank you  for another day, for another breath, for another sunrise, for another day to fight and for a brand new day to start all over again. Gratitude, I think, is one of the most important deed in this world. When we are being appreciative of the things that we have, it will make us feel blessed, it will ease up the burden that we carry on our shoulders. It'll make us smile and it will make us realize that we are fortunate to be in a certain situation for we are strong enough to conquer anything. Ride on, Have you ever heard of the phrase "go with the flow"? This will be the best action for some situation. Sometimes, when we  face adversities we complai...

Let's Talk About Money

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Money make the world go round, a tagline which is famous to each and everyone. Some people don't believe in it, but majority of us live with it. We work very hard so that we can get the money we always wanted, some would shuffle 3 jobs day and night, work our butt off 7 days a week and a lot more. Money is just a material thing, I know some people who doesn't give a damn about money. They are just contented living a simple life, contented with the love that surrounds them, do not have indulges, no high aspirations. Just living the life. Money is everything, some people are driven by money Because they have needs and wants,they wanna buy a lot of things for instance, expensive foods, branded clothing, shelter, cars, gadgets, jewelry, buildings, resorts, island and so much more.. Money is love, rich people are lonely, well not all of them but some are. Maybe because they are too driven to get rich they forget how's like to give affection that's why the...

Defining Passion

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They say people are driven by emotions, it influences how people behave and react to situations, it affects judgment, rationalization, and decision making. One of the strongest emotion that is unclear to most of us is Passion. Below are the list of questions that a lot of people are asking: 1. Why am I not successful? 2. Why some people have it all? 3. How come no matter how hard I work, I am still stuck from where I started? 4. How come he/she achieved a lot putting less efforts. Well people, Passion is the answer! Passion is a strong desire to make things possible or couple of things that steers us to success. A lot of us are still fixed in a norm that we can never achieve what successful people have achieved, we negate from the idea that everything is possible, we think that "success is not for me". Apparently because we lack confidence and we lack faith in ourselves. Yes it is true that a handful are people who are self made millionaire, it is because th...

Different Boss Types

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Courtesy of eagnews.com A Working environment is very tricky and has never been stable even for a day, Its dynamics are unsure and can start from a positive setting into a negative one or vice versa. There are a lot of contributing factors to consider that creates the ambiance but i think the main characters are the boss and its employees. There are different Kinds of Bosses and each type have different strategies and personalities that can bring success to a business or company.  I am just gonna discuss 2 common types to see which is better and to  identify which type is more effective in bringing success. The first one is The Dictator, this type of boss would absolutely believe that management means "command and control." Usually they are self absorbed, compasionless, liars and they believe that they are always right. They may have ask for any  ideas from different people but they will make sure to it that their idea is the one that will be in effect at the end of...

Overcoming Problems in Life

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Each and everyday we encounter problems and trials that put our survival skills to test, things like school projects, bills to pay, food to eat, broken hearts, bankruptcy, death, and a lot more to mention. These are small and big challenges in life and it varies from person to person on how these problems are being solved, some can handle it perfectly fine but some of us are stuck, does not know what to do, how to react, how to think and some just give up. Often times when we encounter major problems we think that there's no solution to it, we sometimes panic, we tend to over think, we get scared and sometimes we lose hope. We start to ask questions like why it happened, what have we done to deserve such misfortunes, Why life is not fair and etc., but come to think of it, Why not? As they say nothing happens for no reason and we would not have given something that we cannot solve. All we have to do is have faith within ourselves,   be brave to face it and keep on mov...