Friday, December 6, 2013

Are White Lies Acceptable in a Relationship?

Trust is a must in a relationship, thus telling the truth no matter what. But should white lies be exempted? (white lies are harmless or trivial lies)

List of several factors why white lies are born 
- avoidance of deeper issues or fight.
- to conceal a secret that you think "is the appropriate thing to do."
- say "no/nothing/none" just to cut the story short.
- of course saying "yes" just to say what is needed to hear.
- not telling what had happened since you think it is not important at all.

But in the end truth prevails no matter how long time had passed. Often times it the source why couple started fighting because it is found out that the other committed a lie. It also contributed  to trust issues where partners started to doubt each other's credibility. Most of all it might be a start of lies after lies considering the other person did it so let's just conclude that it is acceptable.

Relationship is one of the most complicated things to deal with, you cannot exactly predict what will happen in the future if you decide to do a certain action today. Whatever you do, choose to do what is right and be responsible.

Do you think your partner's white lies are justifiable and acceptable? 
Engage and share your thoughts

Thursday, November 28, 2013

Ambition: Is It In You?

You might be reading this because you do believe that you have it already, you also might be confused as to what ambition or just curious.

As you can see successful people are ambitious, they never stop, they are focused and full of excitement.. We people are needed to be driven by goals because if not, we will just be consumed by people who are already on top. There might be  chances that you might not want to be associated as ambitious for norms says that ambitious people are cruel,  inconsiderate of others and conceited.  Now that is not true, having an ambition or being ambitious is not bad after all. It's what keeps you going everyday. It's the bad attitude of ambitious people that you don't want.

Do you notice that you tried waking up early morning everyday but you do not have the urge to get up from the bed? You feel that you are always tired, sluggish and indifferent? These things are  signs that you already forget how is it to be goal driven.

It might be that everything becomes a routine and boredom kills you in every passing days. You might have already achieved that ambition you have in life. But don't fret, life is full of surprises, create another one and try new thing, it is good to challenge thyself..

You just woke one day realizing that life has no hope and everything fail. That is why you have to have that ambition, because people with ambition are motivated, they don't view failures, only opportunities.

Well this world is cruel, all of the things change, evolving towards betterment and you don't wanted to be left behind so you have to keep up.  Now go on reflect and go back days, weeks, months or years from now. What makes you think you still have that ambition in you?

Friday, November 22, 2013

The World of A Charming Telemarketer

As I blink and be awaken from my alluring dream;
I embrace the goodness of the day not with a skepticism,
For I desire to live elated until hell freezes over,
So I can parcel out great service to you moreover.

As I sat down and face my career's description,
I beseech for all the goodness and kindness above all.
For in my three years working in my chosen field,
I gain nothing that I can quarrel but just to acknowledge and endure.

When I convey a lovely greet; What you do Is bang the phone and make sure I heard it right.
When I announce my pitch excitingly, what you will say is "fuck you" and all I can say is "thank you"
When It's time to ask for the numbers, why would you say "no,I don't want your shit"?
Much worst is when I say "have A wonderful Day" and you'd say "go to hell!".
All I want is to help you with your needs since it is you who make an interest about our commodity.

But praise for some who has the kindest heart.
For they can understand how tough it is to be in our shoe,
At best they would procure or gleefully wish me a wonderful day.
And that would be enough for me to end a day with a smile on my lips and again, hope for tomorrow's best.