On a Simple Thought (tips4uonly)

--> What is a bad habit? it is an unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition  and  have a huge factor in our lives. For example smoking, biting nails, excessive shopping, not eating, picking noses and a lot more that can harm your health.  Getting rid of a bad habit is difficult because your habit is part of your personality already. You have been doing it from the beginning since the day you have learned how to do it.  It causes anxiety when you unwillingly get rid of it even for the first try. Also there is already a need, not just merely a want but a need that you can relate to necessities. Often times we try to discard those bad habits and more often than not, we failed. Well because we did not try harder and there is no commitment, we just give up so easy on the first try, and we face it alone, I'm not saying it is bad, It is just that no man is an island and everyone needs support and encouragement. He...

Everyday is a battle between choices from simple to complex or complicated ones. Decision making is important for it will affect you personally, as well as the people in your circle. In some point in our lives we made some bad decisions, other's can fix it easily and undo the mistake but some people lived with it with regrets. Our decisions in life determine our maturity and responsibility and It does not matter whether the decision is right or wrong, what's important is that we are happy with our choices and we live to stand by our principles and beliefs. Here are handful tips to help you make good decisions: 1. Listen to your Gut. Your instinct is right in every way, It helps us determine if there is something wrong, if there is danger and it is our first line of defense. 2. Based it on your Principles or Belief Whatever it is if you base it on your values then it is a good choice. Don't let people tell you otherwise since we are all different and we believe ...

Success is vital in our lives and this is the reason why we work so hard and we never cease to dream. Some people find meaning in life through it, some people already achieved it, some people think they can never have it.  Success is very subjective, we view other's success by our own definition of it and we base our own success thinking of other people's accomplishments. That is why there are always comparison and competition.You might think that you are very unlucky because unlike the people you look up to, you have never stepped into that shoes. On the other hand some people might be envious of you thinking that you already are a successful one. We get envious for we always compare ourselves to other people. We never had contentment in life always asking for something greater than what we deserve, and I am not saying that we deserve less because none of us are. My point is we should acknowledge our own achievements and stop looking at other's success. what we sh...

Have you ever desired to have that little chance to change some aspects in your past? We all have that in us, hoping to undo all the mistakes, craving to reverse all amiss things, ought to forget an entity behind. But no matter how hard we indulge to try we can never change it, not a chance. Time had already elapsed and the past is all gone,yes it is true but it does not mean that we should forget it all or just leave it buried under. What we are now is the result of what we were before and how had we behaved. Some people are running from their past, some don't want to even remember a thing or two, some dwell too much and never moved on. But how important it is to accept the things from the past? Acceptance is a crucial thing and not all of us accepts things easily. When we accept we let ourselves learn a lesson, be smarter and grow maturely. It teaches us to be responsible, it gives us courage to face whatever it is that lies ahead, we unburden ourselves from the things that ...

Love is a very strong feeling that can build a person as well as it can destroy one. They say when somebody loves someone they give everything, all they could and all they have. And who can deny the truth? Everyone of us is a hopeless romantic, every one of us loves deeply, loves truly, loves endlessly. And as they say; nothing beats the first time like those butterflies in the tummy, blood  pumping rush, very overwhelming like cloud 9 is abyss. Well there is always a first time and first times are the best. But when it ends there comes another story. As we go in life we move forward, we take down notes which we have learned along the way, we make promises to ourselves and we learn to protect ourselves. Some of us are having a hard time trusting again, afraid to fall in love again. but some of us give love a second chance but holds back, because they get smarter and they already know better now. Fear is the top most reason why we hold back, we are afraid to b...